Do I really care about my followers?!? Tumblr Tuesday!! #KatiFAQ - YOUTUBERS REACT TO BABYMETAL

Do I really care about my followers?!? Tumblr Tuesday!! #KatiFAQ




Hey everybody, happy Tuesday.
I'm back, I'm Vlogging.
Hope you don't get sick of me.
And it took me a while to get back in the groove,
because I forgot what Tuesday even meant.
And it means that I'm on tumblr.
So for those of you who don't remember where I am on what days, I'll put it below in the description like I used to in my Vlogs, I just have to find that word document, interesting.
Okay, so I'm on tumblr.
Without further adue, here's my first question.
'Yay #KatiFAQ is back'
Yay!
'So here's my question, I have been emotionally abused and bullied and my mum still yells instead of actually'
'speaking to me. When people shout at me or when someone fights or shouts, even at someone else, it doesn't'
'even have to involve me. I get really upset and I cry, and end up even having a panic attack.'
'How normal is that? And can I do something to prevent it?'
Now my guess would be that being yelled at and being bullied and having all that stuff happen has been really traumatic.
And the response that you're having is
that of like a PTSD response.
And I would venture to say that you might be struggling with PTSD. And it's very normal for us to have panic attacks,
to feel overwhelmed, to like 'ahh' we freak out, we can't even handle it. Right. And it's a very normal response.
And my, um, I actually have a video about PTSD. If some of you are watching and are like 'What is PTSD, I don't understand',
you can search on my channel 'PTSD' - Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and it will come up.
And you can watch it and learn about it.
But I would encourage you to work
with your therapist on this.
Now I know that it is really hard, because one of the things that we have to do when it comes to PTSD and working through traumas in general is to talk through them in detail,
so that we can process through it and we can move on.
Now I know that it sounds really painful but I promise you promise you promise you that it will be so much better
when you don't have to fight and deal with these struggles and panic attacks all the time. Okay.
I hope that helps.
Question number two:
'So glad the FAQ is back , yay,'
Me too.
'How does a BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder person get diagnosed. I mean not just the symptoms, the whole diagnosis. Is there a specific age or a test?'
Now, there's a couple of things. First of all, if you are watching and you are wondering what the hell is BPD,
it stands for 'Borderline Personality Disorder', and I have a video on that too. So you can get on my channel and you can search for it.
Because, the chances are, if you are asking a question right now on one of my sites, search my channel first.
Because I've probably already answered it, because I have like hundreds of videos.
Okay. So. Now, referencing that video, that you should watch if you wonder what borderline is,
you have to meet the diagnostic criteria through that. And that's what that is. Now, there is no specific test.
Someone may have tried to come up with a specific test, but there really isn't one that's empirically supported that I feel comfortable using.
I use my own clinical judgement based on the symptoms that you are demonstrating and showing.
And then I make a diagnosis. Now, there is a specific age. For personality disorders, they encourage. I guess I should say that they discourage diagnosis before age 18.
Because the thought is that we're not completely developed into the adults that we are going to be, I would even say that at 18 I wasn't a fully developed adult at all.
But we can't diagnose personality disorders, because personality disorders are something that they believe
to be a long term struggle, and they want to make sure that it actually isn't just adolescents and the struggles
of going from, in high school, or going from high school to college, or any of that stuff. They want to make sure that it's something that you're struggling with separate from that.
So they will hold diagnosing you with a personality disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder being one of those, until you are over 18.
Now I hope that that clears that up.
Okay, question number three:
'I had my first two therapy appointments'
It is getting windy out, holy moly. Okay.
'I had my first two therapy appointments and it is going well. But I have bad dreams about it, really big bad dreams'
'about it before. Is this normal? Should I bother to bring it up? How do I bring it up in therapy?'
I would definitely bring it up. And it is very normal. Often times I have said before, things will get sometimes worse before they get better.
Because in therapy, if you are just starting therapy. Which it sounds like you are. You haven't really dug in to all that stuff
before. So now that that stuff is happening and you're digging in to it, and you're going through it, it can feel
like you're almost reliving past traumas, or past bad experiences, or whatever.
It can actually make us almost relive them, and it can cause bad dreams, it can cause panic attacks and anxieties,
stuff, depression. Things like that, because we have to dig into it to, to number one figure out what we are struggling
with and what we're working on. And then number two, we then have to work on coping skills to deal with it, and we have to process through it all at the same time.
And I know that's kind of confusing, it's like 'Whoa, there's a lot going on'. But there is a lot going on.
So, give yourself the time. Be patient, and yes I would bring it up in therapy. I would say something to the affect of
'You know I'm really enjoying our sessions, but I find that before I come I'm having these terrible nightmares. And I'
'don't know if it's because I have never talked about this stuff before or something. But is there anything that I can do to kind of help alleviate that?'
And I think bringing it up, and just being honest about it will help your therapist understand where you are at.
And maybe go a little slower, or maybe give you some new coping skills to work for that in the mean time.
Okay. I hope that helps.
And if any of you have struggled with this and you have things that have worked for you, leave your comments below.
Now question number four:
'Hi Kati, can you talk about what kind of notes therapists'
'take. My therapist doesn't write down anything while I talk, thank god. But what would she write down after?'
'I know she has to put stuff in her insurance notes, but I mean her private notes. Thanks'
Now, not all therapists take a bunch of notes.
Everybody is different.
There are certain legal and ethical standards that we are supposed to uphold.
Obviously for insurance, which isn't what you're really asking about, but for insurance it's the bare bones
of what they need. It's the diagnosis, as well as why we believe that you meet the criteria. That's it.
Now for our own personal notes, it's more along the lines, it's kind of hard to figure out what I would write.
Because it differs from person to person. But you pretty much talk about how they are presenting, that being
are they clean, have they showered, are they dressed well?
Because that can lead us to talk about depression or anxiety, or they are struggling to get out of bed.
Or whatever it is that we are working on. So how are they presenting, what their week was like, if you see them every week.
I see most of my clients each week, so you know, what was their week like. Is there anything they struggling with. And what we are working on. And what can I check up on later.
And often times in my notes when I first meet my clients, there will be a lot of names and dates.
Because I want to remember who boyfriend is, what their sister's name is, what their mom's name is, what's the year difference between them and their siblings.
So I know who is the oldest and I can keep up with the family tree and stuff like that.
When I take the history it's important to know that. So that's most likely what they are putting down.
I always tell my clients 'If you want to read my notes, you can go ahead and read them. It's nothing that you don't already know.'
Although, I don't think I've ever had a client ask to read them. But they could if they want.
So it's really just a way for us to keep track of what we are doing and how we are working with you. And building our treatment plan.
Okay. I hope that helps.
Now, question number five, final question.
Drum roll please.
'Do you really care about your followers? How can you genuinely care about people that you have never met?'
This person is very suspicious of me, apparently.
Yes I genuinely care.
Why would I do this, why would I be taking time out of my day every day to do this. And to comment on comments, and answer questions, and to tweet tweets and do things.
Of course I care. And you can care about people without having to meet them all of the time.
How many of us have watched a commercial or a movie, and you get wrapped up in the characters.
For me, it's like I've known some of you for years. And you've told me your story, and I'm following along.
It's like we already have a relationship. I feel like I've already met you, and some of you I have met in my hang out.
So yes, I do care. And I care because I'm human, and I care about other humans. And I care about the human condition.
And we're all in it, right. And however we can help one another is wonderful.
And I care a lot. And that's why I do this.
So. I don't really know how else to explain it, other than say,
I do, just believe me. Or I wouldn't do this at all. Right.
Okay. I love you all.
Tomorrow is Wednesday.
So I will be on youtube, and my website.
katimorton.com
So I will see you then, ask your questions using the
#KatiFAQ and I will talk to you tomorrow. Bye!
Subtitles by the Amara.org community

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YOUTUBERS REACT TO BABYMETAL




♪ (heavy metal) ♪
Uh-oh. Anytime it's an Asian video...
♪ (heavy metal) ♪
(together) Baby Metal!
♪ (heavy metal) ♪
♪ (singing in Japanese) ♪
They're, like, 12!
Okay, I'm on board with this!
♪ (heavy metal) ♪
♪ (bubblegum pop) ♪
Oh my god! I love them!
♪ (light pop) ♪
I like this part.
I can't decide what I think about this.
It's a hot beat, I'm not gonna lie.
Wow, I don't know how to feel about this!
♪ (metal music) ♪
-Oh-ho-ho! Oh my god!
-Ew!
♪ (poppy electronica) ♪
Oh my god!
-Is it cute yet?
-It's cute. It's cute.
That's not cute!
That's creepy as [bleep]. No.
♪ (pop music) ♪
Oh my god, I like it!
Okay...I don't like that!
I don't think I liked that. (laughs)
We're not Japanese, by the way.
That was still weird to us.
♪ (electronic influenced metal) ♪
This is like DDR music or something.
♪ (electronic dance music) ♪
This is amazing!
Okay, now this one seems more like EDM-y.
They just look like they're
having so much fun.
Look, I could just imagine
myself being at this show!
♪ (rap music) ♪
Heeey!
Oh yeah! Gettin' hyphy!
What?
I don't know about that part.
-How many genres have we just--
-A whole bunch.
♪ (death metal) ♪
What the hell?!
Is this the same video?
-There's no way it's the same song.
-(imitates heavy metal scream)
♪ (death metal) ♪
This is sick.
♪ (electronic dance) ♪
And we're back!
That's too much.
They're awesome.
It's gonna hit as many genres as possible.
They're gonna get the biggest audience!
Why don't they use
this music for Attack on TItan?
-I wanna be in this group.
-Me too, a little bit.
-We should a Baby Metal cover.
-Yeah?
Yes!
It's like Vine music videos now.
Just six seconds
of everything, all at once.
I... I have nothing to say.
-(music video: Gimme chocolate)
-♪ (heavy metal) ♪
Give me chocolate? (laughs)
Dude, why aren't we here?
Is that the Virgin Mary behind them?
(laughs)
♪(electronic metal) ♪
What?!
(trying to sing Japanese)
♪ (pop punk) ♪
I like this part.
How did this happen?
You know, I'd be a lot more impressed
if they were playing guitar.
-Holy crap! There's a lot--
-Oh my god! There's like 300,000 people!
I would do anything
to go to their concert.
I'm jamming out to this
for the rest of today!
I cannot wait for you guys
to tell me the story behind this.
This would be an amazing concert to go to.
-Are they eating hot dogs?
-A hot dog! A hot dog!
(music video: crowd cheers)
That was amazing.
-See you in the mosh'sh pit! (laughs)
-Mosh'sh pit.
That was the most rad thing
I've ever seen in my life.
That was absolutely incredible!
I want to go see that show.
They tour here?
It makes me feel so good
whenever I watch Baby Metal.
(Finebros) First thoughts after
experiencing the band Baby Metal?
-What?!
-That's the only word I can think of too!
Cute and catchy.
I'm a sucker for it.
I love the catchiness.
Baby Metal...(sighs) was a roller coaster.
Who is their core demo,
and did these girls
come up with the idea themselves,
or was it a big record label
that came up with the idea?
I like weird stuff.
But is it weird because we're like,
andquot;Oh! They're from a different part
of the world! That's weird!
And they do different things!andquot;
-Or is it weird because we're just not--
-No, it's weird.
I was hoping it would
be babies, you know--
-That would be cool!
-That would be even crazier.
(Finebros) How would you
describe their music?
Random AF.
A mess! It's a mess!
Hot metal rock alternative pop DM.
It's like bubble gum meets the devil.
It's Jpop and metal!
(Finebros) It's considered
to be Jpop meets metal
and it's specifically described
by their record label
as kawaii metal, cute metal.
Kawaii metal. I love it.
I love that.
I love turning rap songs
into pop punk happy songs
and doing the irony of that.
(Finebros) Did you ever imagine
that metal music
would be used in this way?
-No.
-No. I mean, it's creative!
No, but people love it!
That's so weird.
There were grown men
in that audience! (laughs)
When I think of soul metal, you think
of bones crunching, metal ripping--
not cute little Japanese girls dancing.
I feel like some of the hardcore
metal fans were offended.
They're like,
andquot;Uh-uh. This is is miiiiine!andquot;
The metal fans that embrace this
are gonna be the new metal outcasts.
It's putting metal
into little easy-to-swallow caplets.
And that's not what metal's about!
Someone out there was thinking,
When are they gonna destroy metal?andquot;
I think someone out there said,
andquot;When are we gonna make metal awesome?andquot;
(Finebros) Would you say
you liked the music?
I didn't hate it.
I just don't like to be screamed at.
-Yes!
-Aah, man!
Why don't you take my music card away?
Oh, by far!
I don't even listen to that much music,
and I would listen the crap out of that.
I did like the music.
I wish that I knew what it was saying.
The rapping was a little--
that was one part that didn't fit.
I like sitting there
and watching the music videos,
but I would definitely
not blast it in my car.
I might blast it in my car.
(Finebros) What did you think
of their music videos, though?
They were crazy and they
gave me a headache.
They were weird!
When those floating heads
came out, I was like, andquot;Ugh! Nooo!andquot;
-I can't do scary pretty well.
-At all.
And the Japanese people
are really good at that.
The weird kaleidoscope faces all moving
together was a little trippy.
But in the world of Jpop,
I don't think it is weird!
That's true.
(Finebros) So the girls in the group,
they go by Su-Metal,
Moa-Metal, and Yui-Metal.
-Alright.
-I love that.
Oh! It's like Sugar Spice,
Ginger Spice, Scary Spice,
Sporty Spice and Posh Spice!
I don't know why I know those.
-(Finebros) One is 16.
-Mmm-hmm.
-(Finebros) The other two are 14.
-What?!
Stop it right now!
They've been going at this
for two or three years!
Does that mean that they
started when they were--
12 and 14?
Asian girls, they don't start andquot;aisingandquot;, or aging,
[andquot;aisingandquot; sounds like andquot;asianandquot;]
-(Finebros laughs)
-The aging...(laughs)
(Finebros) What do you think
about how young they are,
performing this way
and doing all this metal music?
I think it's awesome.
By the time they're 18,
they'll be Slayer status.
They're so much more metal
than I was when I was 14.
I mean, if they were saying
weird deathly lyrics,
then I would be like, andquot;Okay, ya'll gotta
slow it down, Baby Metal.andquot;
However they want to express
themselves is a good thing.
They're talking about chocolate!
It's not the end of the world.
(Finebros) So here's some info
about some of the Jpop system.
They have groups that labels
put together when they're really young,
and when they graduate from Junior High,
they're too old to stay in that group.
So it was like a machine.
This is a movie waiting
to happen right now.
-Oooh.
-So they were too old.
(Finebros) With Baby Metal,
the oldest one has graduated,
two of them are still also in that group,
but they're still doing Baby Metal.
But when this all started, they didn't
even know what metal music was.
No way!
Amazing. I love that.
Makes sense 'cause they're never
actually being like, andquot;BLAR BLAR BLAR!!andquot;
They're like, andquot;(singing cute Japanese).andquot;
(Finebros) Does it take away
from the authenticity of this music,
hearing they were fabricated like this?
I feel like if that's the way
the music is created in Japan,
and the general public is okay
with that, then good for them!
It's not somebody's passion anymore.
It's somebody doing
it for fame or fortune.
Everything is made and that's
why they're so big,
because they didn't
have to really work for it.
It's cool seeing what
these companies are like,
what they're willing to do.
If you're talking about the Pop genre,
I don't think anyone cares
about authenticity,
anywhere in the world.
Let's all be real.
Neither of us was like,
andquot;This is so organic!andquot;
Right.
It's not like those three girls
got together one day and was like,
andquot;Let's stop playing with Barbies
and start doing metal music.andquot;
As long as we're introducing metal
to a whole new group of people,
in some way, this could be like
the Little Golden Books of Metal.
I don't think I've embraced a band
so quickly before in my life!
(Finebros) And now that you've
heard Metal Pop Fusion music
and you know it exists, do you want
Metal Pop to come to the United States?
Well, let's just [bleep]ing hope so.
I'm gonna go ahead and say no.
I don't think it would work here.
I think we could make
the same argument about Kpop,
if we want it to come here,
but I think it's here now.
Yes. 110%.
Absolutely, yes.
I wanna see a whole bunch
of the tween community
just all given guitars and start--(growls)
The last thing I need is a Beiber going,
andquot;Gimmie chocolate and doing metal.andquot;
Beiber can stay the hell away from metal!
-Thank you for watching!
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